DSM VI Hopes – When The Spectrum Becomes Too Broad

Finally got some hope for the DSM VI…You know those moments when you’re listening to something and suddenly you sit up like wait… excuse me?

That was me today.

Because The Daily featured Dr. Cathy Lord, who basically said the autism spectrum is now too broad, and kids like Charlie are getting erased.

This isn’t a random TikTok self-advocate.
This isn’t someone who stumbled into the autism conversation by accident.
This is one of the architects of the spectrum as we know it today. The DSM 5.And even she’s saying:
We need to rethink it. FINALLY!

Let’s rethink the autism spectrum

Listening to Cathy Lord openly acknowledge that the spectrum has stretched too far…
It felt huge.

For years, myself and other autism advocates have been advocating for the spectrum to be split.

Because let’s be real:

When the word “autism” covers everyone from

• non-speaking children who need 24/7 support
  to
• fully independent adults writing essays about masking…

…it becomes almost impossible to talk about needs, safety, services, or reality without someone saying, “Not all autistic people…”

Yes. Exactly.
Not all autistic people.
That’s the point.

And kids like Charlie?
Children and adults with profound autism?
They’re the ones who get pushed to the edges of the conversation until they practically disappear.

The DSM needs to be updated

The problem isn’t autistic people.
The problem isn’t families.
The problem isn’t the diversity of experiences.

The problem is that the DSM v is too blurry.
All the old subtypes were merged into one giant, stretched-out spectrum, and now the differences inside it are so enormous they barely fit under the same word anymore.

And when that happens?

Children with profound autism get overshadowed.
Their needs get minimized.
Their struggles get flattened into talking points.
Their caregivers get told their reality isn’t valid because “that’s not autism.”Except… it is.
It’s just a very, very different kind. That’s why I want to see profound autism as its own in the DSM VI

Hearing Cathy Lord Say It Out Loud Gives me Hope for the DSM VI

I don’t think people realize how big this is.

When someone inside the system, someone who shaped the DSM criteria, someone who helped merge the old categories, stands on a national platform and says that we may have gone too far and we need more nuance. That’s not small.

It’s a wake-up call.
And honestly?
It gave me something I haven’t felt in a while:

Hope.

Profound Autism Needs Recognition in the DSM

Families like mine have been pushing for years to make sure the world understands that profound autism exists

Charlie isn’t “bad at masking.”

He is profoundly autistic, and his needs are profoundly different. No pun intended.

We don’t need to pretend everyone’s experience is the same.
We need a system that recognizes the full range, clearly, honestly, and without shame.

So… DSM VI? Maybe There’s Hope.

If Cathy Lord is openly saying the spectrum needs rethinking…
If experts are finally acknowledging how wide the gap has become…
If profound autism is starting to get named instead of avoided…

Then maybe — maybe — the DSM-VI will bring back the nuance we lost.

Fingers crossed.
Because families like mine can’t keep trying to fit into a definition that was never built for us.