Love Your Kids. Ignore the Hate. – Finding Cooper’s Voice

It’s not about bullying a fellow parent for admitting they are having a hard day. It’s not about alienating them because they see something different than you do.

It’s not about arguing over labels or word choice. And it’s especially not about belittling a fellow parent who is newer to the journey. A parent who is asking questions. And asking for help and support.

Acceptance takes time. It doesn’t happen overnight. Give yourself some grace as you move along this unexpected path.

Special needs parenting is about knowing your own child, advocating for them, never giving up hope, believing in them, admitting it’s hard sometimes, finding the joy, and doing anything and everything to give them their best life.

It’s about making friendships along the way. Building your tribe. Finding the amazing people who understand. Who offer a hug, a kind word, and a supportive text. Because trust me, these people will save you more than once.

It’s about figuring out the person your child is going to be…and the person you are supposed to be.

When it comes to parenting your amazing kids, don’t ever allow yourself to fall victim to another person’s insecurities. Don’t allow yourself to be someone’s punching bag. Not in person. And especially not online.

If they are attacking you for medicating, homeschooling, trying a new therapy, saying it’s hard, worrying, moving, whatever…that’s on them. Not you. You know your child best. They don’t live your life. They aren’t in your home.

Good people don’t bully other parents. Remember that.

Love your kids people. Ignore the hate and keep moving forward. Don’t doubt yourself.